My head is still buzzing with my family's input. They think I'm better off without her and are angry with me.
They just want you to be happy. What happened to me is the one who got maddest was my brother. Ironically, he had done the same stuff, the A, moving out, involved with a woman with kids a few years earlier. He was enraged at my X doing the same stuff he had done. My brother reconciled with his wife though and still are! So I took that with a grain of salt.
I didn't tell anyone for a couple months, but I did feel better being truthful and open about it once I did. You just find some people are more helpful and supportive than others. Ask those people for advice.
Good for you-not watching TV with her! I think you just have to decide what you want to do and then fully commit to that. Karen
