I just found out my H has an OW - we are separated, he is a WAS. I don't want to be separated. He says only if I sign legal separation papers and he can continue with OW he will go to therapy "to see where things stand"...sounds like a death toll to me, but my DB instinct says to try LRT and just avoid him and give him space - the pain of the OW being here now is killing me.
