Cas: that's the thing isn't it? And yet the wake up can come so suddenly too, and if it does, the damage done to you will take some fixing.
Just dropping by really to add some well wishes, and I live in one of the midly exotic places you mentioned
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.