My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[Deep]

I can't help but agree with gucci's last post, but have to add that I think it's ok to show we are human, with our little imperfections (or not so little sometimes). It's far too easy to swing into being arrogant and hurtful when the mind isn;t clear.

RSF: Just one little point that I can't recall anyone else bringing up. I'm really sorry to hear of your challenges now, and wish you the best in your efforts to win your W back.

In dealing with the hurt you caused in that 10 months, and now with W having moved on however, I can't help but be reminded that your W had had a few EAs and PAs in the past. You never did go into too much details (nor do you need to), but I think you've shown great understanding and commitment in moving past this already - it's a deal breaker for many. Nothing justifies an A. In her own way, your W has been cake eating all along, which may or may not have had an effect on you going into wayward mode yourself. While what you did was horribly devastating to her, I think you have to bear in mind that she has to bear up her own share of responsibility too.

And if you do win her back, that is not a M I think you will like going back to. And I don't just mean the lack of attention from you that you think led her to stray.