I never said that you are broken, but you *are* stuck. And you will never be unstuck until you stop blaming your unhappy situation on your wife and her medical conditions, and take back your own life once again.

I honestly do wish you good luck and happiness on your personal journey. I'll part ways with you here.

-- B.


Me 50, W 45, M for 26 yrs
S25, D23, S13, S10
20+ year SSM; recovery began Oct 2007