I mean he will not stop seeing OW. I feel awful.Looking back, I had a chance to get him back in the past, he was saying if I did xyz he wouldn't necessarily get a D. I can't believe I didn't see it - he got tested for stds, he's been gone for mysterious outings he was defensive about saying who he was with... it's really bad. I'm obssessing and despondent I'll never get ht o provto him things can be differdnt so he WANTS to come back. Thaat's what db says too but how do i do it? Go dark?