A New Decade - Part 2

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Julia, hey Michelle. All is pretty quiet with me, as usual

A strange thing happened yesterday my xh SIL called my house. It seems she still has my # as xh home #. She called last year at this time too. The very odd thing is, yesterday it was 2 years to the date that xh dropped the bomb & left & 3 months to the day of our D. We had a nice short chat. Was nice of her to tell me she liked me. Anyway, what she was calling about was to find out if my xh, still wanted some stuff stored at her store that she sold. I suppose it's been there for 10 years or so. She also asked if there was a portfolio of one of xh old GF at my house. Said I didn't know. Strange, because this old GF, my xh only described as a friend, never an old GF.

Oh well. I did quite a bit of thinking yesterday & have decided that it is really time for me to move on. A leopard will never change it's spots & that's what my xh is. If, if, he wants any type of R, he will have to work at it - not me.

So, I will begin the process of moving his things to his house. I cannot move on with all his things here. He will not stick me with all of his clutter & he will not run away from it either. He did say he would help, yet I have seen very little effort. So not out of character for him.

I only have one life & best starting living it!