Hi Cas

i'm at the same point as you I think. It's been 3 weeks of no contact, it's obvious that my H doesn't give a ...

Thinking about going for a D myself rather than wait. I think the reason my H hasn't done it before is financial rather than emotional. So it's probably in my best financial interest to do it sooner rather than later. If it suited my H financially I think I'd be D by now. There's a lesson in there somewhere, I will do and see a solicitor anyway and find out where I stand.

Me and you are about the same age, if we're to start dating again we'd better get a move before we go grey and our teeth drop out!


married 23 years
4 grown up kids