I'm sorry I don't have any advice. I'm dealing with my H's resentment (for 9 years with NO MENTION) issues and general anger as well.

I've learned that trying to push him to talk only makes things worse. He's said the most hurtful things after being pushed.

2009 info:
Me: 35
H: 37
M: 16/T: 18
D: 15
EA: 5-11-09 to 8-09

My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1832210#Post1832210