Distraught by secrecy

[2inlimbo]

Hi dday, thanks for your honest response. My H sent me a nasty message that he's going dark b'c he's sick of my phone calls,begging and pleading. I've done everything wrong with divorce busting.

What kills me is he won't realize he has a problem. He's cut off ties to almost his entire social circle. He's just with this girl who is his office manager so they're always together. His parents believe his lies that they are just friends. So how will he realize he has a problem if no one tells him he does???