Have had a very busy day, took D to work, had my waxing done, went a got fitted for the clothes I will wear in the parade and a few other jobs that needed attending to.
A couple of the dresses I absolutely love and with D's birthday and valedictory dinner coming up I might buy them, I get a discount which is good but they are absolutely stunning. Looking forward to it now.
I went to have coffee with a friend which ended with her H joining us and then staying on for dinner, which was enjoyable they had a lot of M troubles with the W being the one to walk away, they are back together and much stronger than ever.
While I was at dinner H sent me an SMS saying his football team lost and he wouldn't be home till tomorrow as he was going out on the town. So he has another full weekend out living it up. I felt like replying "like I give a S$#@" but didn't, I didn't reply at all. Why bother telling me, no contact since last night so why now.
I have decided that enough is enough, no more cake eating for him so tomorrow when he eventually arrives home, his ironing will not be done and Monday morning there will be no breakfast or lunch made for him. That's right I also make his breakfast and lunch every day of the week. This will be a big big big 180 for me..
The couple I ended up having dinner with said to me exactly what Gucci had said, you are letting him have the best of both worlds and it has to stop. The H said that last Saturday night at the party my H was grilling him about the conversation I had with him wanting to know everything I said was particularly interested that I had mentioned that it didn't bother me if his football team didn't win. I don't follow football really but always supported his team. Now it seemed to bother him that I wasn't supporting them. He even asked me about it the following morning.
His not coming home again tonight means he has forgotten he was supposed to pick D up at midnight which now means once again I have to do it. He has abandoned all fatherly duties.
As I sit here now contemplating the future trying to focus on tomorrow. I am looking forward to going to the nursery to get some plants for the balcony and planting a potted herb and vegie garden and need to get an umbrella.
Yes SD I have thought of many words too but then we have class and dignity which they don't and that is what sets us all apart from the OW and OM in our partners lives.
