Thanks for helping me to look outside the square Cas! I certainly hear your message and I know that it's right. It might be one of the first conversations that I do have with H when he comes around ... as I am sure he will before very much longer.
It would be less confronting to let him know that I am thinking of moving interstate than to let him think I am starting to file.

Truth is, it's good for me to think about these things but I am not ready to do anything about either! I have to be honest with my own feelings, even though I read the reality here. I am still on the crawl stage - I don't think that I am up to baby steps yet!!

Did you read JCJ's post that she linked .. oh, if only I could still produce tears they would have been flowing, I tell you!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09