Ha, our last holiday as a couple was at Palm Cove.

I undertsand what you are saying about hanging on in the house until the last minute but I also think that there is something to gain from moving out which must help moving on. I am still the family home and for logistical reasons I will probably stay for another 2 years and then I'm going to find a place for me. Not sure where that will be but it will reflect my needs and not our needs which is what this house does. I like this house and i feel safe here but it's not really 'my place'

btw my neighbours have never said a word about H leaving but I'm more than certain it's been discussed but just not with me present!