Well done iRabbit ... I've temporarily changed your name in honour of you being so clever!
Yes, those little things are the ones that screw us up, aren't they? They always seem bigger than they are but we just need to do exactly as you said - try for ourselves but otherwise shout out to those who can and WILL be here to help us. That's why I thought opening that new thread that you may have seen for URGENT POSTS may be a good thing ... people may get help faster than waiting for the so-called 'lurkers'.
Anyhow, you did good and so you should be feeling proud of yourself.
I too have noticed the phone is much quieter at home, as well as my cellphone. My mail has become almost non-existent, though H swears that he has not had his mail redirected for the very reason that most of our stuff is in joint names. I know that we used to have more than we do now! Weird. I also know that he would never with-hold my mail from me, so that's not a concern.
Now, the thought of ow is never a good one but it's one that most of us have had to face. How we deal with it is the important thing. I think that, before you go making yourself ill, you should find out the facts of whether or not there is an ow. Have you thought about any ways in which you could find out? This is key to how you handle the situation with H in the future, IMHO.
Let's go from there and then hopefully those who are more knowledgable can drop in to assist you in building a strategy from there.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
