UPSIDE DOWN - still struggling, trying to detach

[Eskimo Nell]

I've considered those words Cas. I even have a note on my fridge notice board which says "book flights for April" - hoping that next time H visits, he will ask me about it. This reminds me that I have choices too and I CAN go home and file, which will make things awkward and disadvantage him, in his own words.

Brave move though - and I don't think that H is anywhere near making that choice ... I think that he feels that he is done and if I agree, that would make the rest of his life PERFECT!