Oh, some deep reflection there Cas but good on you. You are sounding so content and peaceful within your being.

I must go read more of Dia's thread to see if I can pick anything up that may be useful to me.

Too right - we don't need to make a friend out of our Hs. What we(almost said need but that's not right), what we WANT is our H's back and for us all to have learned from the experience - with stronger W's as a bonus!

If you were asked for your top three tips, what would you say?


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09