Based on my past experience, I see many warning signs that your WAW could potentially go that direction. It is not at all funny, and you will find yourself very put off by her behavior, that is if she does go off her rocker.
I'm actually not too worried about this one. Two reasons: 1. She's in the military and I have emails and an IM chat where she admitted to having screwed other men. Adultry in the military is against the rules and she could lose big time as my commander knows and all I have to do is say go and he will make the phone call and she will be in for a hell of a ride. 2. When I consulted with my lawyer the other day, she told me that there was a 99% chance that I would retain custody of my daughter if my case actually had to go to court--I'm hoping it won't. The lawyer also said that if there was a visitation agreement drawn up then at the age of 15, my daughter doesn't have to agree to going to see her mom. In other words, my daughter has about zero respect for her mom right now based on what her mom has said and done(remember, she told her that she had a BF). So, if the wife gets more "crazy" my daughter will recognize this and opt out of visitations probably I'm guessing.
BTW, I had a perfectly awesome night! Spent some time with some friends and that beautiful 45 year old woman. Laughed and laughed and laughed. I still can't wipe the smile off my face. Gucci, thanks for the prescription! I just wish I would have taken my medicine earlier!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
