I know the feeling. H comes over and acts like my H but then the butthead goes to his apartment and writes up papers with his lawyer. It's so confusing.
On a lighter note, she's in the house. Don't forget that. She's still there that shows she's involved no matter what her words say.
Jealous here -= I love it when my H is around enough to sleep in the other room. He claims he does it "to be here for our S." Actions speak louder than words, remember!!!!