I have no problem with you calling it like you see it.
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How long are you going to keep tolerating your husband treating you like he does and you still keep believing that the way you are handling it is going to work?
No matter how long or what the actual facts are showing?
So you have some insight to add? I'm all ears. Since you have followed so closely I'm sure you can tell me what I should be doing? How I am handling it must be awfully messed up and I had no idea. Please share your insights.
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Just curious because you are OVER one year now and it isn't looking much different to me than one year ago..... I find it sad that you are trying so hard to be happy that it almost seems like a martyr.. "here hurt me again. I will just go on and keep smiling"
I don't need your pity and I certainly don't want you to be distressed that I am trying so hard to be happy. As a matter of fact I am happy. I'm nobody's martyr. And just because I'm over a year is no reason to make a judgment call.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
