So the answer is no. So figure out where you are. What resources do you have? What's the plan for moving forward?
Detaching is just letting go of the outcome. Stop being afraid of divorce (it won't kill you). You control your thoughts, actions, and feelings. Think thru it - he is going to serve you with D papers. How are you going to handle it? You don't control whether he does or not. He expects you to be scared, hysterical, undone and crushed. That's how he controls you. Change the dynamic. Be strong, confident and wise. Then see who gets scared.
THanks Coach. This got me through the day and turning around my attitude to a PMA!
