Hello Kittyfish & Sandi2!

[BigJohn]

what's really hard for me is seeing what my XW's life is like for her now. She's having to get a second job selling to friends just to pay for food. She has a professional job, but her financial as well as WAW rage has left her with little left, while I've got smooth financial and emotional sailing.

I refuse to help her in any way and am moving on or at least acting as if. Maybe she's hit bottom and is now on her way back up, who knows, but my point here is in line with Sandi....that these things take a long time and resolution will probably not occur at least not any time soon. My XW is the most stubborn person I've ever met, but I see cracks in her wall forming now. She's starting to come out of it and there will be WAW flashbacks.

SGfan,

Man that is sad to hear. I'm kind of getting the same feeling regarding my W- she just doesn't have her act together. It is very hard to see my W like this as well. My W is also very stubborn like yours. Like you, I am resigned to the fact that this is going to take along time towards resolution... if there is any resolution.

Thanks for the post!