Gucci, that is awesome advice. Unfortunately, I didn't have it after my W left to pursue OM, but looking back, all the RIGHT things I did were right out of your book. All the WRONG things I did were contrary. GoBison, listen to what he's saying. In 6-12 months, you'll be so glad you did, regardless of what happens.

Right now, my W's relationship with OM is apparently dying, and she is pursuing me more. After reading what's going on in AFWAW's and others' threads using Gucci's advice, I know I need to seriously pull away from her. I changed posture and went on the offensive regarding our legal separation. She was surprised, and she made an excuse to delay it.