Hi Rabbit Appreciate the hug to wake up to! This current situation is not about paying the bills myself - that's all done through the bank - but rather that H has not put in enough money for the bills to be paid.
My fear was, he threatened that he would only pay half this month and, when I saw only half the expected money deposited, I felt that he had acted out on the threat. I over-reacted and will wait to see if any more is forthcoming on Monday or Tuesday. If it's not then, I will have to rethink my plan.
Sorry that you had to tell someone that H is no longer living with you - that makes you one step further on than me! I have not had to do that yet but I know that I will struggle when that day comes. I guess it's different living in a 'new' country and no one even knows that you are here, never mind your H having left!! I don't think that the neighbours have even noticed.
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
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