As an addendum to my last - actually, I don't know why I am panicking at all ... the bills are all paid by direct debit from the joint account. If he's not checking the status of the account, he will be as liable as I am and any overdue letters will come here addressed to him, as well as me. (I can't bear paying late payment charges - it's always been a hangup of mine but maybe one that I have to grit my teeth on this time around).
Perhaps I just need to sit this one out and, if the payment does not go in on Monday or Tuesday, I can drop him an email saying "please check balance of account - insufficient funds for bill payments" and leave it at that.
This should not be my issue. I'm dealing with enough of his cr*p right now!
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
