Stavyh...

First off, I'm sorry to hear about your sitch.

Your H sounds almost identical to my H. The confusion, the on again/off again, the not knowing what they want. It's frustrating and confusing.

My H has been involved in a EA for at least 6 months. I'm as sure as I can be that it was not a PA. She is about 1000 miles away (thank goodness).

Hang in there...it sounds like you're on the right path. Are you using the 180 technique that DR talks about?

Me: 39 H: 39
S: 15
M: 18 years
Bomb: 6/3/09
H moved out: 10/15/09
H moved back:5/30/10