Just a thought - have you done any of that 'going out on your own', get-mysterious kind of stuff? I keep saying I will but I haven't yet - gotta fix that. Anyhow, I never hear you talk about it unless it's kid-related. Try it and see what happens?
Cheers!
Dia
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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