How long are you going to keep tolerating your husband treating you like he does and you still keep believing that the way you are handling it is going to work?
No matter how long or what the actual facts are showing?
He's got a point Wifey. He still feels pressured and guilty and loves you like a sister. Meanwhile, the time nears when he can file for divorce after the requisite time separated. tic toc . . .
Look for yourself at what happened on those occasions when you backed way off, were not transparent, and gave him some reason to wonder if you would always be right there. He moved towards you.
He told you straight out that he wanted to be the pursuer. Let him. Don't deprive him of the pleasure of winning you.
