I am sorry to see my M go down the crapper but she is just not worth it anymore. I have put up with way too much crap and gotten little back.
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But then what is the use if she doesn't want to be in a M then it will never work.
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Ok. Now that we have that settled....
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Tomorrow night is time for some shopping and a few cold ones with some buddies or maybe some social interaction to up the PMA.
She wants the other man. (at least for now) If it were me, I would go out and start having the time of my life. Wouldn't be long I would be meeting some fine fine ladies that would love a funny, confident, guy like me. I would have some fun with them and see what happens and what developes..
Regarding the divorce?
Get tough and get a good lawyer and take charge. Negotiate YOUR best deal now while she is acting flexible. The best time to get your best deal is when they want out and have their mind on someone else. They will give you much more because they feel like they just want it over with... GET YOUR BEST DEAL NOW...
It will actually be an advantage for you in the long run. IF she comes back, part of the reason is that reality hit that she left with nothing. It won't effect whether she comes back or not if you get tough with the negotiations. Not a bit. It will actually get you some respect.
If she starts trying to talk to you about the divorce, tell her it is in your lawyer's hands and out of yours. Let the lawyer get you the best deal possible. Think of YOU.
Let her go. You seem to know this. I encourage you. The sooner you let go, the sooner they come back. It will hit her later what she has done. Many couples reconcile AFTER the divorce or just befor the divorce. You are going through the emotional divorce now, she isn't. That very well may hit her AFTER the divore. She will have to go through it at some point,but at her pace and not your pace.
