Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Things are continuing to look up...although I remain cautious.

Saw my IC for the 2nd time. She's in agreement to take it slow and to not put any demands on H. I think if I give him the time to stop all contact with OW it'll be better. Of course, I can't wait forever but I am trying not to dwell on it.

H has been very affectionate and loving. I'm beginning to get those old feelings back from when we first met. It scares me because I fear the bottom dropping out.

One feeling I don't like is the insecurity. I constantly want reassurances from H. I don't ask H for any...I try to remain as confident and self-assured as possible around H.

S has a retreat next weekend so H and I are going to spend the weekend at a B&B.