Well, there is a fine line, isn't there? Cuz how long will any secure person (male or female) pursue someone who is walking away?
As one of my pals said... "Might take me an hour to get over her"
LET THEM GO IF THAT IS WHAT THEY WANT. A secure person realizes that he or she can not make someone stay with them or be in love with them. They have to stay out of choice. It doesn't mean that the secure person doesn't hurt.
