IMO - I think by H telling you he is going to see OW he is trying to push you away and convince you it is over. He may also want a reaction out of you. It sounds like you handled it extremely well. Do not play his games.
All the times he said to you that your R is in the past....makes me wonder is he trying to convince you of that or himself?
Glad you are feeling better. Hang in there and keep us posted.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10