I agree and I am so glad that you are happy. I had a situation a couple weeks ago when my dad felt he needed to talk to me. It is the fact that I am a pack rat(I come by it honestly) and he was telling me get a move on and start letting go. It has been two years afterall!

I am proud that I can say yes Dad you are right. I hold on to things to some degree to build a wall and keep people from getting to close when I am hurt. You wanted me to be done the second that I knew he filed but you have to realize that I am not you. I had to get there on my own and I did. I also had to deal with the bankruptcy which just closed in July. I know you are trying to help and I will get there, I am just not totally ready to let go and let people physically into my life.

One, I never would have even said that to my Dad before all this happened and two, I had a self realization. Now I can start to let go of some of the stuff.

Sorry for the hijack.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
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