Unfortunately all that knowledge is hard to "implement" when the other involved party is ignorant... (not having the same knowledge)
This is the problem I have had with all of the books I have read. BUT.....I'll try another..
Update I have started reading it. Seems like so far if I could get wife to read it with me it would be better. Yes I see her and I in the couple except not really sure about wife. She has a hard time expressing her feelings so I can only assume what I see in the OW is what she is going through
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know