I think it's highly unlikely there has been a PA. But then, if you'd asked me 6 months ago, I'd say this whole scenario was highly unlikely.
Reasons against (this is for my piece of mind as well): She is over 600 miles away and the only time he was gone for any length of time was from a Saturday morning until Sunday late afternoon/early evening. She is also an avid photographer who posts pics almost daily on her blog and on flickr. She had several pics from that weekend posted that all appeared to be in her home area so I don't think she met him halfway.
One thing my H keeps stressing is that he feels like I don't trust him and that really offends him. I do trust him physically, I just don't think he recognizes that it was/is an EA. I'm not sure he thinks an EA even counts.
I definitely need to read these boards more and reread the DR book...especially in those times I'm feeling particularly vulnerable.
