It's good that you're pinpointing some of the issues that seems like such little penny ante things, but can make the difference between perceiving your home (and by natural extension, your spouse) as a delightful, peaceful haven or just one more thing to stress out about.

I think you received a *great*, thought-out, personal anniversary gift. HUGE.

I do believe I will sweep my h. off to a romantic Italian dinner tonight, in solidarity. Can't hurt; grin.

"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes.
Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert