ACJ, you are probably right about my D thinking that I may resort to shouting since she isn't coming home. I am hoping that the conversation with my W about the 50/50 living arrangements go smooth. I don't expect it to but one can hope. I consider my D's concern to be yet another opportunity to know that I love her unconditionally and I don't have to resort to a negative display.
Regarding my W and her friend, I do think the kids suspect something but if my W is following suit about her mother and her mothers' affair with another woman, she will never say anything to the kids. My W found out about her mom's gf when the lady started to talk to my W earlier in the year that my W decided that was a path she wanted to take. It was always suspected of her mother but no one ever discussed it.
I hate seeing my kids go through this.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God
