Hadn't had a chance to get back to H, what with having to shower up after my run & all, so the messages are starting to get a little more desperate; "I have time before my next appt & when S6 gets out of school to come over, please call me."
Just received this email from a friend who's H was having an A with one of her best friends:
How are you doing Sunny?? Tell me what's new with you? Did you and H get divorced? My H and I are doing good. Lifes back to normal now, but he's very sorry for what he put me through last year!!!
After the bomb, she went full swing into gucci mode, telling her H she would not be with a man that wasn't faithful, etc. & started socially interacting. Three months later he was begging her to get back together.
Kinda speaks for itself....although I do think the LBS needs to do the work to make themselves into someone no one would want to leave.