future,

I've noticed that my W sometimes gets so much into a convo we might be having and touches my arm. It's happened a couple of times lately. I have not initiated or received any kisses in about 3 months. In your case, I would completely pull back as far as that's concerned.
The changes in my sitch came about after I told her that if she's sure she wants a D, then go ahead and do the paperwork, then I took my ring off and started talking about splitting the last few bills that we still share. I think I will actually split the first one in the next few days. After that, I started following the "stay distant, but show her a good time when we're together" course. I do not organize anything for us to do together, but she's initiated something last weekend. I just told her that I am taking them to an amusement park next weekend and if she asks if she can come, I think I will let her, but I am not going to propose it.


Me:37/W:38
T11/M8
S12 S4 S4
Bomb 10/07
Sep 7/08-

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