How he acts after the D papers are filed will be very telling. If he ever swears again at you, I think you will know that his heart is in his wallet more than with you.
I also think a big change he must do for fixing himself is to find a new occupation. One where he does not need to travel or work long hours or be around other guys who have a degrading attitude towards women.
In a way, I kind of feel some pity for him. His world is crumbling around him. But in the end, he has no one to blame but himself.
Kerry
When he was talking to me Wednesday night, that was a big chunk of it, too. That his career choice has been a major contributor to his life sucking. Now, don't get me wrong. I know there are guys at the top of the corporate meat-sales ladder who don't screw around on their wives. It just seems like a very "Mad Men" (tv show) operation where it is still the 1950s and boys will be boys...
Anyway he said that even if he wasn't fired, he needed out of the business. It was killing him. I asked what he intended to do instead and he said he didn't know but he had to get out. Time for him to choose between money/status and health/peace.
