Or is this only an act as if that I'm reading out of context?
You have it out of context.. It is a guy thing between guys...
Just a way of saying.. "don't worry about it you are acting like a girlie man.."
She'll be back.. they ALL come back.....
man way of telling him to quit acting like a girl and start acting like a man and not a little boy. Quit whining to me about a girl leaving you and let's go play some golf and joke and have fun.....
trying to tell them to "get over it man, too many other women looking for a guy like us out there.."
Most men understand.. The ones who don't are the ones that keep losing the women and then can't get them back no matter how hard they try but refuse, just refuse to give up.. (how many of those type do you see on this site that are reconciled? (answer. few to none)... (kinda like Kevin)(keep trying Kevin)
Sometimes you women sure get in the way when I am trying to save a relationship........
How long are you going to keep tolerating your husband treating you like he does and you still keep believing that the way you are handling it is going to work?
No matter how long or what the actual facts are showing?
Just curious because you are OVER one year now and it isn't looking much different to me than one year ago..... I find it sad that you are trying so hard to be happy that it almost seems like a martyr.. "here hurt me again. I will just go on and keep smiling"
Thanks for the invite Gucci. Don’t do golf, but I know what you mean.
Did not want to name names (ie Kevin), because I can easily come off as an insensitive jerk. Interesting, your last post will be taken like that, but it was intended to be no more then tough love with her best interests at heart. It is so obvious that you really do care.
I do see a theme here, that is NG’s loosing their women because they are NG’s, and then failing to win them back by continuing their NG behavior. Reading some of these threads I just want to jump through the monitor and ring their necks, PULL IT TOGETHER MAN!
JoshuaRobert really picked up on all this quick, he did so well, I think he was a natural though.
Women don't like feeling like a "a dime a dozen"...and so often we do. But, ya, too bad. I read it here and was shocked and then decided to take notes instead and remember that there is a deeper point being made.
Women don't like feeling like a "a dime a dozen"...and so often we do. But, ya, too bad. I read it here and was shocked and then decided to take notes instead and remember that there is a deeper point being made.
You are dead on, you just made the point yourself. Let me expand on it. Women don’t like that feeling, so what is a woman to do? Correct the sitch, that is to pursue. You don’t pursue what that is coming towards you, you pursue what is walking away.
Well, there is a fine line, isn't there? Cuz how long will any secure person (male or female) pursue someone who is walking away? Timing is everything.
I maybe putting the cart before the horse here, but probably not. There is something AFWAW need to puzzle on at some point. SP brought this point up a few months ago, one of those things he puzzled until his puzzler broke, or something like that. That is there are lots of hand wringing here about the W becoming a WAW because the husband was not man enough (I say yes in a lot of cases)? The puzzle part goes something like this; did this marriage break down because WAW was not women enough?
AFWAW you need to ask yourself that. While I feel moral obligation to hold up marriage, your WAW dealt you a get out of jail free card, that being her infidelity, no one on heaven or earth can judge you for putting your WAW aside.
