I maybe putting the cart before the horse here, but probably not. There is something AFWAW need to puzzle on at some point. SP brought this point up a few months ago, one of those things he puzzled until his puzzler broke, or something like that. That is there are lots of hand wringing here about the W becoming a WAW because the husband was not man enough (I say yes in a lot of cases)? The puzzle part goes something like this; did this marriage break down because WAW was not women enough?
AFWAW you need to ask yourself that. While I feel moral obligation to hold up marriage, your WAW dealt you a get out of jail free card, that being her infidelity, no one on heaven or earth can judge you for putting your WAW aside.
