In some ways WAS WANTS to see LBS in relationship with someone else or playin' for the other team. It provides easier justification to leave. No need to blame it on the difficult to understand relationship dynamics or on the WAS self.
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Yes, O'Dog has got more than a few questions about WomanFriend. W was probably thinking, that if only he had someone else then I could just kinda sneak out of the R without making much of a stir. But WomanFriend is just a friend. O'Dog shared at length with WomanFriend about what he was going thru in hopes that WomanFriend and her H could get it back on track. And they have. O'Dog shared this with W.
O'Dog also got his gender ID questioned a few times too. "It's Sunday and you're going out for a bike ride with your Tri buddies? Aren't you required by law to watch NFL?" No.
Now, O'Dog hopes that for those who DO find their M not working for this reason that they find their happiness. But it's not my case and I find it sad that W almost hopes it true because it would make leaving easier.
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Just blow off these hopeful justifications. Be strong in who you are.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
