Questions for The DB'ing Pros - Help!

[neversaydie63]

Questions for you DB’ing Pros

WAW left 4 months + ago
We still see/date 1 to 2 times /week
Talk every few days or so
For more detail on my sitch, follow the sitch link in my signature.

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1) Phone Calls –
* Should I always wait for her to call me first?
• When she does call, I never pick it up right away anymore – is that good?
• Should I call her back the same day or the next?
2) Pictures of Us around our house
• They kind of bug me, seeing us all happy, together – if I take them down, will that be bad when she comes over?
• She has none of us at her new house when she is living (as far as I know)
3) Money
• Still have joint checking accts and saving accounts – should I make a change?
• My paycheck is still supporting both of us – should I separate it now and let her pay her own way? She has some, but very little income of her own.

4) Wedding Ring
• Do I still wear it or take it off? Currently I am wearing it and she is wearing hers (at least when she is around me)



Thanks everyone for your input here --- just trying to do the right thing here, I really do want our marriage to work!

NSD