I knew it was serious from the start. Experience here remember?
I do plan on letting her talk first and really listening, but I am fairly certain it will end with her saying she wants out. I just want to have her agree to wait until it makes a lot more economic sense. Too much to explain, but 8 months or so, will net us $30,000 or more. I can furnish a nice apartment with my half! For that kind of money, I can sleep on a futon and live in one part of the house - I will have a half bathroon, big screen tv, XBox, etc.
I am not trying to keep her close to change her mind, so I hope it won't "clearly indicate" that. I am being 100% genuine when I say waiting is for logistical reasons - and to ease all of us into a new normal.
I am feeling much stronger than a week ago. I am prepared emotionally, factually and physically for the R talk. I almost can't wait to get it over and done with and then move on from there - regardless of the outcome of that conversation.
