You are welcome smile
I also saw apartment searches as well as "quicky" divorces and hotels for the 2 of them...
Every search just added more pain to what I already felt until I had to stop...
I knew the truth...I had the information I was looking for...
Once all was said and done, I had to do a 180 and stop looking at the cell bill and his FB and his MS and his computer etc...
And I will tell you this...
It has only been about 3 weeks since I stopped everything...
Time is your friend...
Use it to decide what you want out of this...
Do your 180s', GAL, protect your children and yourself...
I also thought mine wasn't moving out due to the price of rentals, however he was biding time until the FT (fat troll since you are new here) left her H and moved here then he bailed one day while I was at work...
And now here I am 2 months (today) later wondering what I want out of this...
I no longer allow it to consume me...
There are actually days (few and far between) when I wonder if I even want him back and you will get there in time as well smile


May All Who Seek To Take My Life
Be Put To Shame And Confusion;
May All Who Desire My Ruin
Be Turned Back In Disgrace.
~Psalm 40:14~