Dont send mixed messages. Some men are actually...human and do care about us and what's going on in our minds, I know it sounds like science fiction after all we have been thru...
You're right M, it is like science fiction to imagine a R with a man that truly cares & acts like he does.
I have muscle memory that's triggered by the last almost 3 yrs of interacting in a R that has little to offer.
H told me, "You're doing the same thing, you said you would think about it (R'ing) & you still have NG over, so I just did the same thing."
I can't even picture putting up with him & his loony tune ways even one more time.
I'm having an excellent time socially interacting with Mr. Confident right now & have no plans to push anything to the side because H is uncomfortable.