It was not my idea he talk to her, it was his. He said he called her, introduced himself as the new guy, and said he just wanted to talk to her to see if there was any way he could help. She refused to talk to him. Her father did talk to the bishop, and gave him an earful about what a violent monster with mounds and mounds of debt who never really loved his kids or wife. (I admit to a slight temper, but I was never, ever even close to violent. And while I've misused credit cards in the past, I've paid them down by over 75% compared to a few years ago. Looks like the lawyer fees will wipe out all my gains, though).
Anyway, he got my side of the story, but he says he won't take sides (which he shouldn't, of course).
But I got a rather nasty e-mail from my wife telling me to never call the bishop again and to stop trying to attack her through her religious leaders. That has it exactly backwards, since I did not tell the bishop to talk to her - he was just trying to be a good shepherd to his flock.
I breifly replied, telling her I was not trying to get at her through the bishop, but at this point I doubt she believes anything I say. She's listening to her parents, and all they want to do is bring up and exaggerate everything I've ever done wrong.
Last edited by lonelywolf; 09/04/0904:34 PM.
Me: 35 W: 31 D10, S7, S2, S11 months M: 11 years Tricked into separation. In Last Resort.
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053
