Have to say, I`m finding the lack of intimacy thing with us pretty difficult too. And since men are supposed to want it more, that leaves me quite puzzled.
Meanwhile, I`ll go blast the ozone layer with my battery usage!
On the other hand, like that your H has been very affectionate. Lucky girl! Enjoy it!
Ok, forgive me for jumping in here, but I think I've gone beyond the ozone and made a ring around the moon.
Have you tried the new "Intense" by KY? Super shopper found it on sale for 19.99 and had a 5.00 coupon. Worth every penny.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Oz, feel free to stop back, and see what NOT to do at times! Ha!
My main mantra, since DB'ing has been to...
#1 - Create an atmosphere of peace and pleasure when H is here (he works out of town most of the work week). #2 - Follow the rule of NO R TALK (ok, I've slipped a few times, but I've been at this since mid-November of '08). #3 - GAL like a MoFo! (Success!) #4 - Own my own contribution to this mess, and make appropriate changes in me.
It's been working so far, but at a snails pace. I'll keep up with you, since we're friends now! (Wish my D18 was as nice as yours!!! Mine's a handful! It's a good thing she's cute!)
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
Stace! Forward! He can shoot, eh? Hope he has some decent mid-fielders to feed him opportunities!!!
ORD on the Friday of Labor Day weekend! Oy! Enjoy!!!!!!
D18 is actually inching along, too. School (she says) is good. Work is good. Apartment life is awesome. The boyfriend is now at school - nearer to you - at Concordia Lutheran (Mequon), so I'm sure she'll be scootin' out of town on the weekends soon. Good thing she's not going this weekend, since you're gone. I may need you to play back up Mom sometime if she gets herself in trouble up there sometime! LOL I just met her at the "boutique" that I love, and let her take advantage of their end of the summer sales (jeans, strappy sandals, and cute tanks). She was thrilled. I don't usually let her go there too often. It's more Mom priced than teen girl priced, but she IS her Mother's Daughter!
Soccer tournament this weekend in town. LD picnic at a friends (kids go to school w/my kids), and, you got it... The Skinny B!tch Margarita's have been requested!
Lunch w/the BFF today. New place called Olive. Martini time?
Football game in ELGIN this evening... It's our Varsity team... S12 thinks he has to make an appearance at every one, you know. The girlfriend and Mom and riding with us. Her Mom is fun, so I'm ok. S9 has his nose out of joint, because "girlfriends are GAY! Why does SHE always have to come with?" So, now we have S9's BFF with, as well!
Off to shower. If I get ready quick enough, I can hit this cute new boutique next to our lunch stop first!
Retail therapy is where it's at.
LOVE YA! Have a superb weekend! I need some micro-dermabrasion from all of this sun damage this summer.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
