Oz, feel free to stop back, and see what NOT to do at times! Ha!

My main mantra, since DB'ing has been to...

#1 - Create an atmosphere of peace and pleasure when H is here (he works out of town most of the work week).
#2 - Follow the rule of NO R TALK (ok, I've slipped a few times, but I've been at this since mid-November of '08).
#3 - GAL like a MoFo! (Success!)
#4 - Own my own contribution to this mess, and make appropriate changes in me.

It's been working so far, but at a snails pace. I'll keep up with you, since we're friends now! (Wish my D18 was as nice as yours!!! Mine's a handful! It's a good thing she's cute!)

Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.