First off I don’t post here much, have never experience marriage troubles as deep as the posters here. However, that is why I am here, kind of a PM measure for my own marriage. So I feel a bit out of place.
Sure, quite a leap, however you exaggerated it a bit, I did not elude to anyone being on the receiving end of a beat down. What I posted was no exaggeration, have experienced all I described, and had it happen to me a couple of times (GF’s).
Based on this exaggeration I get the idea you are being a bit defensive? I am in no means critical of your advice (well, the dating while married thing), was simply pointing out to AFWAW that I see some warning signs based on my own personal experience. Perhaps I just had a flash back and am simply projecting. Hope so for AFWAW’s sake.
I have read NMMNG and was quite shocked by this mentality, and this NG dysfunction is rampant with the husbands on this board. Fortunately, I don’t think that crap is contagious. Anyhow there are NG’s here that need some serious help, and the advice you provide is truly a public service. My hats off to you.
AFWAW, I am in no means attempting to divert you off the path Gucci is helping you with, simply pointing out that this COULD get really weird, and fast. Hell, your sitch as been really weird for quite a while.
